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Abstract:
In February, Lawrence King was shot to death at E.O. Green Junior High School in Oxnard, Calif. What sets his murder apart from others is that King was openly gay....

crtiquer

posted 4/01/08 @ 8:46 AM CST

are you really a junior in history? have you written a paper before? wow. reflector, please either write one yourself or pull something from the AP wire before publishing essays written by middle-schoolers.

bill

posted 4/01/08 @ 9:30 AM CST

To say that King "invited" harassment is ludicrous. He was a teenager experimenting with his identity and his sexuality -- and there's nothing wrong with that. Straight girls/women are hit on by straight boys/men every day -- in ways that are often much more threatening than mere flirtation or asking someone to "be my valentine." Yet we don't believe that straight women should be able to kill the men who offer unwanted attention, do we? We should, as the writer says, try to stop harassment -- but the first step in that is education. It's not "special" rights to be allowed to be who you are -- it's equal rights.

Tim

posted 4/01/08 @ 9:30 AM CST

I agree that minorities shouldn't get special privileges, only equal privileges.

That means that stories in school shouldn't exclusively depict heterosexist norms. Either they include different perspectives or don't depict any romantic relationships at all. After all, that's equal, right? Your values have been forced on me throughout my childhood. But people don't think about that.

The fact that you think gay people have as many rights as the "rest of you" completely destroys any credibility you may think you have as an author (or perhaps even a journalist?)

I'm denied tax breaks, health insurance and many other luxuries that heterosexual couples enjoy. I can't serve in the military. I can't donate blood. I can be denied adoption rights, leaving thousands of children in dismal conditions. I have to pay inheritance taxes if my partner dies. (Married couples are dismissed from paying that penalty.)

I can be denied power of attorney and hospital visitation since I'm not a "legal" family member of my partner.

As a journalist, I strongly suggest that you do some serious research before writing anything in the future.

But clearly "gay people...do have just as many rights as the rest of [you]" right?

Bob Zuley

posted 4/01/08 @ 9:54 AM CST

I'm troubled by the author's use of statements such as, "By imposing his homosexuality on McInerney,...", and "Promoting tolerance can instill in children's minds moral and religious values." That the author has trouble accepting those different from himself and outside traditional, mainstream norms is a given. But what is so horribly wrong about promoting acceptance, inclusion and validation, especially in our elementary and secondary schools. These are attributes not being fostered at home, so it would benefit society by instilling them in school. Schools remain for educating, after all. I trust that the author recognizes that schools have an obligation in addressing the needs of marginalized students, including sexual minorities, especially when this particular population segment is frequently targeted for harassment and violence. Lawrence King's murder should serve as a clarion call to improve our schools.

Bob Zuley

posted 4/01/08 @ 9:59 AM CST

I'm troubled by the author's use of statements such as, "By imposing his homosexuality on McInerney,...", and "Promoting tolerance can instill in children's minds moral and religious values." That the author has trouble accepting those different from himself and outside traditional, mainstream norms is a given. But what is so horribly wrong about promoting acceptance, inclusion and validation, especially in our elementary and secondary schools. These are attributes not being fostered at home, so it would benefit society by instilling them in school. Schools remain for educating, after all. I trust that the author recognizes that schools have an obligation in addressing the needs of marginalized students, including sexual minorities, especially when this particular population segment is frequently targeted for harassment and violence. Lawrence King's murder should serve as a clarion call to improve our schools.

C.J. LeMaster, Online Editor

posted 4/01/08 @ 11:39 AM CST

Please do NOT double post. People can see your opinion just fine by reading through it once.

Aviva Hart

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:01 AM CST

That make perfect sense and explains so much of history, thank you dear Lazarus.

So many women around throwing their femininity about, obviously "inviting" rape and murder. And those throwing about their blackness to invite racist attacks. How truly retro to blame the victims of attacks for the failings of their attackers.

To quote your own words, I find you: "immoral, sinful or simply uncool" to condone bigots murdering those who offend them.

We are the ones imposing our heterosexuality on everyone. 99% of ads, tv series, films and sappy songs on the radio are about this man/woman thing. Just like 99% of American magazine covers feature white people on their covers. It isn't right and it isn't reflecting actual American society in its glorious diversity.

A little understanding and compassion and acceptance (not tolerance) of all those who dwell this land is moral, good and VERY cool.

Kyle Hitchens

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:18 AM CST

This is how you spend your time..justifying murder? So all those people who "forced" their heterosexuality on me in high school were inviting me to murder them? You obviously don't know much about being gay in America. "Gay people should and do have just as many rights as the rest of us". What a joke. God forbid kids are taught tolerance against those "uncool" gays. It is sad anyone published this garbage.

Grant Haertter

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:19 AM CST

Thank you, Bob Z and Aviva. I had the same reaction when reading this article, and I agree completely. Heteros and homos should have the same rights to express themselves without fear and prejudice.

A. Heimberg

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:22 AM CST

So when you hit on a girl who isn't interested in you are you "inviting" her to blow your brains out?

Mad John

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:31 AM CST

What a depraved exercise in blaming the victim. I guess you've just justified my murder of the next straight girl who flirts with me, thus "imposing" her heterosexuality on me, huh?

Blake

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:48 AM CST

The question being addressed is not the right question to discuss, in my opinion. The problem is that the writer tried to give both sides an equal shake, while he most likely believes homosexuality is wrong (which is probably next to impossible). That question is a more central one. Is homosexuality wrong? Obviously, the commentators here will disagree and the writer will agree. In a perfect world, the two sides would intelligently debate this issue. Even then, it is unlikely that the writer will change his mind, and vice-versa.

My point is that until this question is discussed, further discussion will not be constructive.

I don't think the writer is justifying the murder, as evidenced by his last sentence. But using the word "invited" sure makes it sound that way. The word lays some fault on the inviter, and in this case, I wouldn't place any fault on the victim. Bad word choice.

My advice is not to confuse opposition of murder with opposition of homosexuality. Agree to the former and, if you wish, debate the latter. Otherwise, there is not much of a reason to continue.

Ben

posted 4/01/08 @ 12:00 PM CST

Originally posted by

Blake

The question being addressed is not the right question to discuss, in my opinion. The problem is that the writer tried to give both sides an equal shake, while he most likely believes homosexuality is wrong (which is probably next to impossible). That question is a more central one. Is homosexuality wrong? Obviously, the commentators here will disagree and the writer will agree. In a perfect world, the two sides would intelligently debate this issue. Even then, it is unlikely that the writer will change his mind, and vice-versa.

My point is that until this question is discussed, further discussion will not be constructive.


Right. If an answer is required, then here: Homosexuality, both as the sexual orientation, is not wrong. As the subsequent acting out of said orientation, it is not simply not wrong, it is right.

Homosexuality as an orientation has been observed in nature. It is a natural phenomenon, similar to having blond hair or being double jointed. It is outside the norm, but no more a "perversion of nature" than is being particularly tall or short. It is important to note than no mainstream psychological organization supports efforts to change sexual orientation, or even the idea that such a change through therapy is possible.

As the acting out of said orientation, homosexuality is right in that it is the honest expression of one's feelings toward another person. Marriage is, at it's core, a committed relationship between two people. This, or any relationship, can only be viable if the two participants are both involved. A straight man can only have a true sexual relationship with another woman; a gay man can only be honest with a man.

Furthermore, it is important to note that relationships, when entered into honestly and fairly, are good. In this respect, homosexuality and heterosexuality are good because they provide the framework for sexual, loving, fulfilling relationships. To each his own, the chief criterion of judgment should not be the gender of the lovers, but whether or not they are lovers. Anything else is, as they say, a perversion.

Landon Bryce

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:56 AM CST

Even for an April Fool's joke, which I assume this is, this is pretty sick.

Personal responsibility

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:57 AM CST

Ah, the wife-beater's excuse: "Look what you made me do!" Snap him up while you can, girls.

As a conservative, I'm more a believer in personal responsibility. Flirting doesn't kill people, people kill people.

Irinfox

posted 4/01/08 @ 11:45 AM CST

No surprise here. Mr Austin is a product of what passes for "education" in a state that ranks 50th, not just in this area but in every other measure of civil society. As the say in Texas, "thank God for Mississippi".

CP

posted 4/01/08 @ 1:25 PM CST

Originally posted by

Irinfox

No surprise here. Mr Austin is a product of what passes for "education" in a state that ranks 50th, not just in this area but in every other measure of civil society. As the say in Texas, "thank God for Mississippi".


A blanket statement such as this shows your true ignorance. I'm sure things are much clearer up there in your ivory tower.

Otherwise, I agree with the general consensus in that this article should never have been posted.

Ironfox

posted 4/01/08 @ 3:25 PM CST

Originally posted by

Irinfox

No surprise here. Mr Austin is a product of what passes for "education" in a state that ranks 50th, not just in this area but in every other measure of civil society. As the say in Texas, "thank God for Mississippi".


CP, educate me. Show me where Mississippi ranks on national social indices.

Rob

posted 4/01/08 @ 5:19 PM CST

Originally posted by

Irinfox

No surprise here. Mr Austin is a product of what passes for "education" in a state that ranks 50th, not just in this area but in every other measure of civil society. As the say in Texas, "thank God for Mississippi".


Not a good idea to attempt to insult an entire state on the website of one of that state's student-run newspapers... Your beef is with the author, whom you assume was fully educated in Mississippi, not the entire state. In reality, now you look rather foolish because you don't have the first idea where the author of this article was educated, do you?

And the shooting took place in California, have you considered that? The murderer was a product of the California educational system, not Mississippi's.

By the way, I was not educated in Mississippi, but I am educated enough to know that Mississippi ranks #1 in per capita charitable giving amongst US States, and I certainly think that's relevant to "a civil society."

Ironfox

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:23 PM CST

Originally posted by

Irinfox

No surprise here. Mr Austin is a product of what passes for "education" in a state that ranks 50th, not just in this area but in every other measure of civil society. As the say in Texas, "thank God for Mississippi".


Rob, " Not a good idea to insult an entire state on the website of one of that state's student-run newspapers."

Why? Can I now expect a noose on my door, or a cross burning on my lawn?
I think not, this old and honourable institution has a history of academic freedom and freedom of expression.

You seem confused, first you say that my beef is with the author, which is accurate. Then you rather redundantly inform me that the murderer was a product of the California educational system.What is your point? The California murderer did not write this bigoted screed.
BTW, does that charitable giving include mandatory tithes to Fundi churches?
I'm still waiting for anyone to disprove that Miss. is at the bottom of the heap on national social indices. Rob, how about you, got anything?

Jeff

posted 4/02/08 @ 6:42 AM CST

Originally posted by

Irinfox

No surprise here. Mr Austin is a product of what passes for "education" in a state that ranks 50th, not just in this area but in every other measure of civil society. As the say in Texas, "thank God for Mississippi".


And Texas is better in what way exactly? Texas can't even keep their border secure against the influx of Illegal Aliens, drugs, and possibly terrorists. As for your ignorant spew about nooses and burning crosses, you don't get out very much except for reading collegiate news websites. Some dimwit in Baltimore hung a noose in a firehouse because he got reprimanded by his C.O. Did I mention that he was black?

Exactly how are you an authority on civil society besides somebody sitting in their underwear, living in their parents' basement, hiding behind a keyboard?

Oh, one last thing, are you IRINFOX or IRONFOX? Try a spellchecker before you post again. Your credibility gets shot to Hades when you can't even spell.

Greling Jackson

posted 4/01/08 @ 11:59 AM CST

The arguments made in this editorial that suggest that the victim "invited" his own murder are eerily similar to the arguments that suggest that pretty women "invite" their own rape and torture. How cruel and short-sighted.

Now I know that the coming response is going to be that all of these people who replied "misunderstand" and the author "wasn't trying to excuse the murderer", but those of us who are minorities don't need a follow-up. We already very well understand where this kind of mindset comes from and will eventually lead to.

It's the same kind of mindset that eventually led to the Holocaust. Once we are allowed to distance ourselves from human suffering and then begin to placate and whitewash bigotry and intolerance, while blaming and demonizing the victim, there is but little time left when we will eventually begin acts of terror and persecution. Small steps lead the way.

Also, I do not understand how bigoted parents have more a special right to mold prejudice into their own child than a 15-year-old has to be safe as school. For the life of me, I will never understand how some people live with themselves.

William Dehner

posted 4/01/08 @ 12:59 PM CST

What an absolutely vile conclusion this article draws. Lazarus Austin, what if your children declare themselves to be... whatever... and "invite" the ire of a bigot? How dare you. This twerp should never have been printed.

Peter

posted 4/01/08 @ 1:37 PM CST

Ms. Austin states that "King, however, may have gone too far by imposing his sexuality on others. Although King by no means deserved his fate, he may have unfortunately invited it," and that "he often flirted with his fellow male students and wore feminine apparel and accessories." Through these statements you make the erroneous arguement that gender expression, apparel and behavior invite violence. This stance sounds suspiciously like one made popularly by rapists in reference to women who wear short skirts or revealing blouses. I wonder if you or a loved one were the victim of such a heinous crime if your feelings might alter? Apparently your history education at Mississippi State is not inclusive of such U.S. case history. Read up and lose the thinly cloaked bigotry.

Spirit of Jesus

posted 4/01/08 @ 2:06 PM CST

This article is written by someone who is quite ignorant of sexual orientation. And from that ignorance stems bigotry. Plain and simple.

Ryan

posted 4/01/08 @ 2:38 PM CST

I have a question. Im I considered a bigot if I believe that homosexuality is immoral and should not be accepted as "ok" or "that person was born that way"? I am a firmly rooted Christian who believes in the Bible and what it says. God condems homosexuallity. PERIOD. I dont think anyone has the right to tell me to "just except it."

Joe Schmo

posted 4/01/08 @ 2:46 PM CST

Originally posted by

Ryan

I have a question. Im I considered a bigot if I believe that homosexuality is immoral and should not be accepted as "ok" or "that person was born that way"? I am a firmly rooted Christian who believes in the Bible and what it says. God condems homosexuallity. PERIOD. I dont think anyone has the right to tell me to "just except it."


I can tell you're a fundamentalist. Homeschooled, apparently.

Rob

posted 4/01/08 @ 5:11 PM CST

Originally posted by

Ryan

I have a question. Im I considered a bigot if I believe that homosexuality is immoral and should not be accepted as "ok" or "that person was born that way"? I am a firmly rooted Christian who believes in the Bible and what it says. God condems homosexuallity. PERIOD. I dont think anyone has the right to tell me to "just except it."


I can condem[sic] your excepting[sic] of homosexuallity[sic] and tell you that you need to just accept it.

Does being a firmly rooted Christian who believes in the Bible and what it says give you the right to condem[sic] everyone who doesn't share in your beliefs?

Paul

posted 4/01/08 @ 2:55 PM CST

People have a right to believe that homosexuality is wrong because it is a lifestyle. The jury's still out on whether or not one is "born that way" or not. There has been little scientific evidence to prove either side, especially with the "gay gene" theory dismissed years ago.

All I'm saying is this: if someone believes a lifestyle is wrong, they are not a bigot. If they believe a person of another color is simply wrong for being a member of a particular race, that IS wrong.

Example: Joe Schmo thinks Ryan's perceptions are wrong. That is his right. Ryan's lifestyle and belief system reflects how he was raised. At the same time, Ryan also has the right to criticize others as well.

Amazing how some so quick to criticize can't handle it themselves.

Mad John

posted 4/01/08 @ 3:05 PM CST

Originally posted by

Paul

People have a right to believe that homosexuality is wrong because it is a lifestyle. The jury's still out on whether or not one is "born that way" or not. There has been little scientific evidence to prove either side, especially with the "gay gene" theory dismissed years ago.

All I'm saying is this: if someone believes a lifestyle is wrong, they are not a bigot. If they believe a person of another color is simply wrong for being a member of a particular race, that IS wrong.

Example: Joe Schmo thinks Ryan's perceptions are wrong. That is his right. Ryan's lifestyle and belief system reflects how he was raised. At the same time, Ryan also has the right to criticize others as well.

Amazing how some so quick to criticize can't handle it themselves.



This is wrong on several counts. There is quite a bit of evidence of a biological basis for homosexuality; I can cite at least half a dozen studies in the last three years. And far from the "gay gene" theory being dismissed, the UCLA twins study, in particular, essentially confirms a genetic component.

You're college kids - aren't you supposed to know these things?

Nancy Jane

posted 4/01/08 @ 9:14 PM CST

Originally posted by

Paul

People have a right to believe that homosexuality is wrong because it is a lifestyle. The jury's still out on whether or not one is "born that way" or not. There has been little scientific evidence to prove either side, especially with the "gay gene" theory dismissed years ago.

Regardless of whether gays are "born that way", they should be entitled to the same respect and civil rights as everyone else. Democrats and Republicans are not "born that way" but no matter how wrong you may believe members of a political party are, they have a right to assemble, petition the government and promote their ideas. Christians are not "born that way", at least not the first time around, but they certainly have their fair share of constitutional protection.

Jed Pressgrove

posted 4/01/08 @ 3:19 PM CST

First of all, I don't think Lazarus was condoning murder. Unfortunately, there was partial blame placed on the victim for flirting with another student.

This leads me to a point that may seem controversial, but really it isn't. We live in a society that has not fully accepted homosexuality, and some homosexuals might need to be aware of this for their own safety. Yes, America has made strides toward tolerating homosexuality. At the same time, many who now tolerate homosexuality do not want to be "hit on" by homosexuals. This is a line many have drawn. This line would probably apply to high schoolers as well because they are notorious as anyone in terms of ridiculing homosexuality.

So what does this mean? Although we should never place a minute amount of blame on King for the murder, this incident tells us that Americans still commit acts of violence against others because of sexual orientation. As sad as this will sound, some homosexuals might believe they have to be careful in today's society. While many people--including myself--would not assault a homosexual for the way he or she lives, others might.

Homosexuals have to make a daily choice between behaving as they feel or staying in the shadows. This is totally unacceptable, and one would think Americans would know better.

Ryan

posted 4/01/08 @ 3:26 PM CST

Sorry Joe I went to public school all my life. I just have been raised properly and have a good head on my shoulders. I also What God says isnt up for debate.

Darren

posted 4/01/08 @ 5:36 PM CST

Originally posted by

Ryan

I just have been raised properly and have a good head on my shoulders. I also What God says isnt up for debate.


You are wrong on both counts. If you HAD been raised properly, you would have been taught to accept those who are different from yourself, and would know that accepting people for who and what they are does not mean you have to emulate them. You don't want to have sex with a person of your own gender? Fine. Don't. See? Everyone wins.

Second, NO ONE KNOWS THE WORD OF GOD. The Bible was not written by God. God did not sit down one day and write His memoirs. The Bible was written BY MEN - human males. As such, it is subject to all the faults, ignoble feelings, jealousy, anger, hatred, victimization of those different from oneself, etc., that infect ALL humans. For pete's sake, the Bible contains TWO creation stories! Is that what God would do if He wrote it? I. Think. Not. So for you to say (or what I assume you meant by your illiterate scribbling) that "What God says isn't up for debate" is so totally stupid as to defy analysis. (That won't stop me, however, LOL!) God never said "Homosexuality is bad." Men said, in Leviticus, that having sex with a person of the same sex is bad, and said that it was punishable by death. Well, if you go by THAT rule, you must ALSO go by ALL THE RULES set down in Leviticus. A small sample: don't eat lobster, crab, shrimp, crayfish, clams, oysters, mussels, squirrel, rabbit, or any part of a pig (no ham, no bacon, no pork sausage); no having sex for 2 weeks of every month (the week of her period and the 7 days following it); don't have sex with ANY of your father's wives (hmm, OK, men can have multiple wives and that's OK...) or both of you will be put to death; no clothing that is not completely one substance -- no synthetics, only pure cotton or pure wool; no tattoos; no cutting of the hair that grows from your temples; no shaving; anyone speaking disrespectfully to their parents should be put to death (that would probably kill off the majority of the population!). And that's just a TINY sample of the rules you would have to follow if you want to keep your bigoted beliefs.

And if you want to use Paul to justify your bigotry, think again. For one, there is much speculation that Paul himself was gay. And even if he was not, he definitely was a human, and thus subject to all the faults and foibles of the rest of us, including bigotry. Also, any EDUCATED reader of the Bible understands that everything in it must be read with a knowledge of the historical context in which it was written. The authors of each book (not God, btw) were writing in a particular time and place, and had the beliefs of that time and place ingrained; thus their writings all have to be understood in context. At the time most of the New Testament was written, homosexual rape was a very common practice for the victors of any battle. Paul's comments were telling those who wished to follow Jesus not to engage in this practice. He wasn't commenting on the rightness of same-sex love. At the time of Paul, it was not known that being gay is inborn, with a strong genetic component. So interpreting anything Paul said about the victorious soldiers' practice of homosexual rape as a condemnation of being homosexual is just plain ignorant.

Paul

posted 4/01/08 @ 8:48 PM CST

I resent that. I am not gay.

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Joshua Sabik

posted 4/01/08 @ 3:36 PM CST

I'd expect this level of thoughtful, hard-hitting writing from a student whose best option was Mississippi State.

Bold

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:57 PM CST

Originally posted by

Joshua Sabik

I'd expect this level of thoughtful, hard-hitting writing from a student whose best option was Mississippi State.



If you're criticizing Mississippi State, did you see where this paper originated from. Please be careful of your comments because it's obvious that you do not know that Mississippi State has produced many great individuals. Unfortunately, you are here. How depressing!

Jed Pressgrove

posted 4/01/08 @ 3:46 PM CST

Oh yeah, Joshua? Well, you have a kinda weird last name.

Klay Key

posted 4/01/08 @ 4:46 PM CST

It enrages me that women teachers use "Mrs." to flaunt their heterosexuality in the classroom. I'm offended by co-workers with pictures of opposite sex spouses on their desks. I do not want to hear what other co-workers did with their girlfriend or boyfriend over the weekend. Those icky heteros are always trying to have special rights.

Robguy

posted 4/01/08 @ 5:50 PM CST

At first I had the same reaction as a number of commenters; use of the gay panic defense, does this mean I am justified in murdering any woman that might make a pass at me, etc.

Then I realized this was posted on April 1st. Good try, but not very funny as all too many people really do think that way.

J Mark

posted 4/01/08 @ 7:02 PM CST

Great. So tell me then... just out of curiosity... how do we not stick our homosexuality in your faces? Maybe you can give us some pointers?

I mean you people have restaurants called "Hooters." Should we open one called "Holes?"

Every time I open my eyes in public I see scantily clad women embracing men on TV, on billboards, movies, commercials, bus shelters, magazine covers... Hey.. I see REAL PEOPLE shoving their heterosexuality all the time. Walking around holding hands, wearing wedding rings promoting their life style.

Now... those annoying couples who hold up traffic by driving slowly down the street in those "JUST MARRIED" parades... should we kill them all at once or one at a time? Since you know... they're inviting it?

Paul

posted 4/01/08 @ 9:19 PM CST

Originally posted by

J Mark

Great. So tell me then... just out of curiosity... how do we not stick our homosexuality in your faces? Maybe you can give us some pointers?

I mean you people have restaurants called "Hooters." Should we open one called "Holes?"

Every time I open my eyes in public I see scantily clad women embracing men on TV, on billboards, movies, commercials, bus shelters, magazine covers... Hey.. I see REAL PEOPLE shoving their heterosexuality all the time. Walking around holding hands, wearing wedding rings promoting their life style.

Now... those annoying couples who hold up traffic by driving slowly down the street in those "JUST MARRIED" parades... should we kill them all at once or one at a time? Since you know... they're inviting it?


I think as a whole, percentages are higher of heterosexual males being grossed out by guy-on-guy behavior in public versus homosexual males being grossed out by guy-on-girl behavior.

So because the vast majority engages in heterosexual behavior, suddenly we're the wrong ones for doing that in public? Wow. Gotta love your logic here, J Mark. What is that, like Marky Mark's cousin?

g0tmilk

posted 4/01/08 @ 9:03 PM CST

Great... The good ol' fashioned "that person was asking for it" argument. How many times has this been deemed a legitimate defense in rape/murder cases?

Besides, since when is changing values that's seen to inspire violence such a massive thorn anyway? I mean, people do harass/hurt/murder people because of these beliefs...

Sean

posted 4/01/08 @ 9:22 PM CST

I think you are completely wrong. The thing is as children age it is harder for them to absorb things such as tolerance. By teaching students tolerance at an elementary age, it helps to teach acceptance much earlier. I think it would be better to think what you write before you make a statement, but that is your opinion and to each their own.

Bold

posted 4/01/08 @ 10:49 PM CST

I don't think the author is trying to blame the victim, but if you're heterosexual, you really become offended my homosexual advances. I hear your objections about hetero advances but hetero people feel differently. I don't feel the murder was right by any means but homosexual people should not target people whom they know are openly heterosexual.

Bill Courson

posted 4/02/08 @ 7:43 AM CST

"Mad John" is right on target. This article is a perfect illustration of the upside-down thinking of the homophobe, the racist and the xenophobe. Larry King's horrific execution an example of overly entusiastic tolerance education? Give me a break, straight boy!

Richard Ammon

posted 4/02/08 @ 11:10 AM CST

You wrote: ..."In 2006, one school was sued because one of its teachers read a famous children's book advocating homosexuality called "King & King" without parental permission to 7-year-olds. "My problem," said the suing parent, according to a transcript of "American Morning" on CNN.com, "is that this issue of romantic attraction between two men is being presented to my 7-year-old as wonderful, and good and the way things should be."

Just when do you think intolerance, prejudice and discrimination begins??? Seven-year-old Palestinians already hate Israelis; seven-year-old Hutus hate Tutsis... Prejudice starts at home and starts early, so reading a book about alternative sexualities to children is not too early to balance out the prejudices imbued at home.

Bob Zuley

posted 4/02/08 @ 11:25 AM CST

"I don't think the author is trying to blame the victim, but if you're heterosexual, you really become offended my (sic) homosexual advances. I hear your objections about hetero advances but hetero people feel differently. I don't feel the murder was right by any means but homosexual people should not target people whom they know are openly heterosexual."
Hey, BOLD....Your comment is extremely offensive, ignorant, and antagonizing. Of course the author is exonerating the shooter. And, unwanted advances NEVER justify violence, even if hetero's are involved. What exactly does "hetero people feel differently." mean? GLBT people are violently attacked and sometimes murdered because of their orientation/gender identity. We don't have time to suffer your ignorance or worry about your sensibilities. Never presume to think you know someone's true sexual orientation. Many straight and even married men aren't.

Jeff

posted 4/02/08 @ 12:05 PM CST

My concern here has nothing to do with the gay/straight topic. My concern is that a middle school student was at a point in his life where he murdered another middle school kid. How can that happen? How can he decide that's ok? How did he have access to a weapon? What went through his mind for the 24 hours or so while he planned and then carried out this murder? How did NOBODY see this boy was so angry within his tiny little middle school world? To me the gay rights issue is a part of this entire situation, but only part of it. Just a few years ago, he would have taken him out behind the gym and beat him up. We can discuss the right and wrong of that action, but when our society has kids this age murdering each other, there is a much larger issue that may need to be addressed; I'm just not sure what that issue is...

M Skowron

posted 4/02/08 @ 6:33 PM CST

You sound like a typical stupid Christian bigot.

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